ZEN Bitchin'

Dispatches from a foreign country

Category: sexing the city

My funny valentine

Until now, I still find Valentine’s day to beĀ  a strange holiday. From my childhood I remember that it coincides with Teacher’s day at school, a time when we give flowers and little gifts to our mentors after mass or a short program on the nobility of teachers and teaching as a profession. In high [...]

This boy

this boy mp3 | lyrics
Lately, my mind keeps going back to a short story I read many years ago. The story is called ‘His Eternal Boy’, and it was written by Peter Wells. It’s about the seduction of a schoolboy by a middle-aged antique shop owner. And just a few hours ago, ‘Lan Yu’ was [...]

Work it

work it – missy elliott
Last Sunday, I went to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia to participate in a training organized by TSF–an institution that has been both my client and my provider of PDA (professional development activities, not that PDA!) This was not my first workshop with them, as this was certainly not the first time I [...]

Wrong impression

Wrong Impression – Natalie Imbruglia
The other weekend I traveled to Siem Reap to be with two men.
The first man took the bus with me. I’ve known him for about 8 months. We’ve been seeing each other intermittently over this period of time. Having coffee. Having sex. This was our first trip together. I was going [...]